The Life
Stream
As we “row,
row, row our boat gently down
the stream” we may come across stretches of rapids,
deep dark gorges, open
sunny spaces, and the occasional sandbank or "hazard". We may need to
"streamline our tactics" or "bridge a gap" to create links,
or call out for a line to be thrown when a current gets stronger than
we feel
we can manage. Sometimes banks can be fortified, a dam added to create
more
space for recreational purposes…… The metaphors
can be fun to play with!
The "life stream" in our Lifestream
Associates name, is the broad stream
of all our human capacities. This mega stream consists of innumerable
little
streams or currents that are our various individual capacities.
Cognitive,
emotional, kinesthetic, interpersonal, spiritual, even entrepreneurial
- these
little streams flow on, sometimes relatively independently, through the
various
levels of our human development. They are our multiple intelligences,
and we
utilise them for the fulfillment of our various needs and desires.
Various human capacities
together constitute
the individual who, in a Lifestream coaching program, may choose to
work with
one or more of these elements of the overall "flow".
The different currents
move forward in anything
but a linear, even progression. If one or two "streamlets" are ahead
of other capacities, this might create an opportunity to combine
existing
strengths and competent "streams" of life with aspects one may wish
to strengthen. -A
coaching conversation
can clarify and identify such possibilities and strategies.
If
our needs are not being met, it may be because the right match of
skills and capacities has not been employed in the service of those
needs. For
example, if we are spending energy acquiring status symbols instead of
fulfilling a deep need for intimacy, then we may find ourselves feeling
empty
or desperate. A coach can encourage us to explore and then to bring
about a
"match" of needs and resources which then creates a greater sense of
happiness and fulfillment. |